A month with SecretDesires.ai

I spent about a month playing with SecretDesires.ai’s anime girlfriend generator. What starts as a character builder quickly turns into a small collaborative world: you tweak visuals, set personality and relationship context, then watch the AI knit images and chat responses that match the voice you picked. It’s not perfect, but the mix of customization and flirtatious chat creates a surprisingly immersive experience.

How the experience feels

The interface puts you in control. You choose hair, outfit, expression and then layer personality traits like coy, bold, or soft-spoken. Those choices don’t just change a portrait—they shape how the character speaks and behaves in chat. Visually, the anime style is polished: bold lines, gentle shading and exaggerated expressions that read like stylized anime porn aesthetics. The intimacy comes from the sense that the character is responding to you personally.

Step-by-step: what happens as you build a character

1) Choose gender, style and age

Pick Female or Male, then select Anime style (for consistent stylized visuals) and an adult age (18+). Locking the style early is smart because switching style later subtly changes facial proportions.

2) Skin tone

Choose a base complexion and optionally fine-tune via a customize tool. The platform offers a randomize button if you want unexpected combinations.

3) Eyes and hair

Eye colors range from natural blues and browns to purple and red. Hair styles cover braids, buns, bangs, pixie cuts, curly, ponytail and more. You can also customize shades to match personality—mysterious characters often suit darker palettes; free-spirited ones pair well with wavy, lighter hair.

4) Body type and proportions

Body type options and separate sliders for breast and butt size let you shape a coherent silhouette. The recommended workflow is to pick the overall body type first, then fine-tune proportions for balance.

5) Personality and relationship

Personality cards include descriptors like Overly Confident, Mysterious, Caregiver, Seductress, Hopeless Romantic and even Cruel & Unforgiving. Relationship pills determine context: Girlfriend, Wife, Friend, Step Mom, Colleague, Cosplay Partner, Friends with Benefits, and many more. Pick one clear personality and relationship for consistent chat tone.

6) Voice selection

Voice tiles include regional and stylistic options—American, British, Japanese, Valley Girl, Aussie, etc. Click to preview audio and match cadence to the chosen personality.

7) Work and hobby

Selecting a primary occupation and hobby (from Photographer to Bartender to Anime Fan) shapes the autogenerated “About Me” and informs both chat and image prompts.

8) Naming and review

Enter a name or use the randomizer. Review a recap grid of chosen traits and make adjustments if anything clashes with the intended vibe.

9) Finalize: chat, generate images, or edit

The final screen shows a preview portrait and actions: Start Chatting, Generate Images, Edit Character, or Create Another. There’s also an editable About Me panel to define boundaries, backstory or tone.

Pro tips and troubleshooting

• Lock the Anime style early to keep portraits consistent across regenerations.
• Align Personality, Voice and About Me for coherent role-play.
• Use the Random button for inspiration, then refine with Customize.
• If portrait details look off, hit Regen or tweak hair/face choices; adjust About Me to guide narrative tone.
• If audio previews don’t play, check browser tab muting and device volume.

What stands out

Deep customization lets you craft small narrative details alongside visuals. The anime spotlight style feels expressive and stylized. Chat integration makes the character less like a static image and more like a co-creative partner. There’s a consent-based NSFW toggle to prevent surprises, and occasional visual quirks—like slightly misaligned eyes or odd lingerie placement—lend an oddly human imperfection.

Who might enjoy it

If you like exploring fantasies, building characters, roleplaying or simply want a creative playground to design bespoke anime-style personas, SecretDesires.ai offers both image generation and conversational depth. Privacy-focused users will appreciate encrypted chats and opt-in NSFW controls.

Final impression

After many late-night tweaks and prompt nudges, the tool proved entertaining and oddly endearing. It’s imperfect but deliberately so—those little glitches remind you you’re interacting with a machine trying to match human nuance. If you want a muse that chats, teases and occasionally glitches in a charming way, it’s worth a spin.